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“I’m not getting sex from her, why should I date her?”


I asked a friend of mine why he wasn’t making an effort to go out with his longtime female companion.

He replied, “I’m not getting sex from her, why should I date her?”

I couldn’t believe he would say that, much less think that. He is not young anymore. Evolution is finished with him. Sex should not really be a factor in his relationships anymore. Companionship should.

Apparently he didn’t get the memo. But he thinks he is still a stud, whereas I think it’s questionable whether he was ever a stud. I don’t see women lining up at his door, so I think the quantifiable data trump his opinion of himself.

Oddly enough, he is back with her now, and as far as I know, he is still not getting any (she is post-menopausal and uninterested). Perhaps he was simply displaying typical male bravado in his statement. 

I don’t think he’s fooling anyone.

  1. 2012-01-29T20:51:55+00:00 20:51

    Methinks he’s trying to fool himself. Not well, however.


  2. 2012-01-27T17:48:51+00:00 17:48

    Maybe there’s something else about him that causes his lady friend’s sexual reluctance. Perhaps he has some sort of fetish she’s sick of and menopause was a convenient excuse!


    • 2012-01-28T21:01:48+00:00 21:01

      Bahaha – That’s likely true.


  3. 2012-01-25T04:46:26+00:00 04:46

    Wow. He sounds like a real catch. Maybe the look you gave him when he said it made him take a look at himself …


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